desperate,
deplorable, awful, horrible, terrible, dreadful, lousy (informal)
antonym: welcome
in
tears, tearful, weepy (informal), lachrymose (literary), teary, sobbing,
weeping, bawling (informal), howling, blubbering (informal), wailing, sniveling,
blubbing (UK, informal)
lament,
lamentation, cry, weeping, dirge, howling, wailing
antonym: celebration
sobbing,
weeping, bawling (informal), howling, blubbing (informal), sniveling,
snivelling